Ready to celebrate Anal August?

If you’re curious about trying backdoor play for the first time or simply want to brush up on your skills, this guide will help you navigate the experience with confidence, comfort, and—of course—plenty of lube 😉

Because when it comes to anal play, the right prep can make the difference between “nope” and “oh yes.”

Here are 6 Simple Tips to inspire your August anal adventures—designed to make things smoother, sexier, and way more comfortable.

1. Take Your Time (and a Deep Breath)

Patience is key. Anal play isn’t something to rush. Start slowly with lots of communication if you're with a partner. If you're solo, go at your own pace and listen to your body.

Pro Tip: Anxiety can create muscle tension, which makes penetration uncomfortable. Relaxation is your best friend here.

2. Lube Like You Mean It

Your backdoor doesn’t self-lubricate, which means lube is absolutely essential.

• Water-based lube: Perfect for beginners and easy to clean up (hello, Happy Lube Water-Based).
• Silicone lube: Extra slick and long-lasting—great for extended play sessions (think Happy Lube Silicone). Trust us, Silicone lubricant was practically made for anal play!

The golden rule: When you think you’ve used enough lube, add a little more. Your comfort (and pleasure) will thank you.

3. Start Small

This isn’t the time to jump straight to larger toys or penetrative activities. Start with a lubricated finger or a beginner-friendly anal plug.

• Begin with gentle external stimulation
• Gradually work up to internal play as your body relaxes
• Always listen to your comfort level

4. Communication Is Sexy

If you’re exploring with a partner, check in often. Talk about what feels good, what doesn’t, and how you can make the experience even better.

Pro Tip: “Safe words” aren’t just for hardcore play—they’re a great way to ensure everyone feels comfortable and connected.

5. Cleanliness Matters

A quick pre-play rinse can make you feel more confident and help prevent discomfort.

And post-play? Clean your toys (and yourself) with warm water and a toy and body-safe cleanser.

6. Pleasure Is the Goal

Backdoor play isn’t just about penetration. Anal stimulation can involve external touch, massage, and toys designed for pleasure points (hello, prostate!) without any pressure to go “all the way.”

The goal is to enjoy the journey—not race to a destination.

Ready to Try? We’ve Got Your Back(side)

This Anal August, stock up on the essentials that make backdoor play better:

💧 Happy Lube Water-Based: Perfect for beginners—light, silky, and easy to clean.
✨ Happy Lube Silicone: Long-lasting and ultra-slick for a smoother ride.
🛍️ Happy Lube Bundle & Save Combo: Get both lubes together and be ready for anything—plus, enjoy built-in savings!

Shop now and make Anal August unforgettable!